Setting the Record Straight

Hey All,

I've had a bit of negativity directed towards the blog and while I am not going to point fingers or single anyone out, I just want to reiterate that sometimes when posting, I can be a bit quick to type. So things may be a bit misconstrued or misinterpreted. For one thing, I would not post a SINGLE picture or wear something that I didn't love or find promise in. 

I apologise to anyone who may have felt I devalued the amazing pieces I am given to wear or things I have in my own wardrobe. I do not take anything I have for granted. For those of you know know me, you know I would NEVER say something INTENTIONALLY to hurt someone.

Second, I do borrow a lot of clothing from Auntie R and I have also borrowed from Auntie B and been given hand me downs from both of them. In addition to their generosity, I've been given clothes to borrow from my  sis, my cousin and of course clothes swaps!

Since prepping for the competition, I have found that while I can still fit into some of my clothes MOST do not fit. I am so lucky that I have an extended family who are willing to share their wardrobes with me so I don't have to wear the same things everyday, nor break the bank in purchasing more clothes. 

These pictures were taken a few weeks before the competition and Kat so graciously took these pictures. 









What I am wearing (I am happy to report that all articles for once are my own :))
Skirt: Club Monaco
Shirt: Mango
Jewelry: Bracelets (Gift)
               Necklace: Aldo
Shoes: DKNYC

What do you do when your upset? How do you cope? How do you let go? 
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33 comments :

  1. SunnydaysandstarrynightsAugust 3, 2011 at 11:31 AM

    I am so sorry that you have been getting some negative feedback.  I really love the outfit you are wearing here it is so feminine and chic.  I love love love that necklace!

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  2. DespinaAugust 3, 2011 at 11:45 AM

    your outfit is so classy and elegant.really love it.but the necklace is amazing!great :)

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  3. GlamKitten88August 3, 2011 at 11:51 AM

    You are so damn gorgeous.  Let's get married and have fur babies together.

    http://www.glamkittenslitterbox.com/Twitter: @GlamKitten88

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  4. beckyAugust 3, 2011 at 11:54 AM

    This is such a nice outfit and I love that necklace. It's definitely a statement piece. You're lucky to have relatives who hand you down clothes :)

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  5. lillbitAugust 3, 2011 at 12:04 PM

    SO classy! LOVE the necklace :)

    www.plentyforpennies.com

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  6. Bright SmileAugust 3, 2011 at 12:09 PM

    Sending you nothing but positivity! (And compliments on the super cute skirt!)

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  7. KatAugust 3, 2011 at 12:18 PM

    This is such a pretty outfit and classic N. When you put yourself out there in the blogging world you're a target for people's opinions and that can be hard. But at the end of the day it's how YOU choose to live your life that matters and you should stand behind your values. Personally, I think borrowing vs. buying is very sensible! And if anything you're being gracious in acknowledging which items are borrowed and giving credit to the owner.
     

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  8. Beatrice BalajAugust 3, 2011 at 4:17 PM

    I love this look!! That necklace is sooo adorable!!!




    Xoxo,http://www.beatricebalaj.blogspot.com/

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  9. StirdivantssAugust 3, 2011 at 6:23 PM

    Aw hell naw! No body better be messing with my boo. You look stunning and I know you are a true blog friend. I felt the blog love from day 1. Im not friends with posers! How do I cope? I think I think of how my life would be if I continued with person x in my life. I cry. I call my mom. the usual u know. we are only human.

    Sophia

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  10. Liz KurlandAugust 3, 2011 at 6:34 PM

    LOVE your wardrobe!!

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  11. karatenurseAugust 3, 2011 at 9:09 PM

    Yes! Haters!  Isn't that a sign that you are doing well? ;)  Don't waste one second of your energy on those people.  Delete those comments and keep being you!  Love that outfit.  That necklace is beautiful!

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  12. FedericaAugust 4, 2011 at 4:23 AM

    Welcome back honey! I suggest you don't waste your time and your energy on those negative people.Let's go straight on your way! Btw love the entire outfit,so chic!
    http://chiccastyle.blogspot.com/

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  13. Tereza AntonAugust 4, 2011 at 6:17 AM

    SWEETIE!!!
    First of all welcome back :). Second o all, don't mind the mean people, you and your blog are amazing and you should know that by now.

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  14. blackhuffAugust 4, 2011 at 7:33 AM

    At the moment I am struggling to let go of upset feelings :( But mostly I ran them out on the treadmill or road. That usually helps. Clears the head while finding solutions :)
    Sorry to hear that you are getting some negativity on your blog. 

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  15. TheonlyfashionprincessAugust 4, 2011 at 10:12 AM

    you look very chic! :)

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  16. Stefanie KuncmanAugust 4, 2011 at 10:13 AM

    so sorry to hear about the negativity! and i know im so upset we couldnt meet up! life is so annoying, why cant we all just do fun stuff all day and get paid for it? :) anyway, there will be a next time i am sure!

    <3 hope your trip was amazing!

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  17. Closet FashionistaAugust 4, 2011 at 10:16 AM

    Love your necklace and skirt! :D
    When I'm upset I read/watch Harry Potter or watch Disney movies, haha :)http://www.closet-fashionista.com

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  18. Safiyyah FransAugust 4, 2011 at 11:08 AM

    Uggh, I hate negative comments.  Don't let them bring you down love!  

    And when I'm upset, I sing or go shopping.  (Even though I do not recommend retail therapy...EVER)

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  19. Fashionismyh2oAugust 4, 2011 at 11:27 AM

    Dont get dissheartened by negitivity sweetie it's not worth it <3 lovely outfit here the skirt is beautiful and very classy

    Sarah
    http://fashionismyh2o.blogspot.com/
    xx

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  20. Natasha JanzenAugust 4, 2011 at 1:13 PM

    Bummer about the negativity!  Usually it's a sign of jealousy...which means that you're much more fabulous than them!!
    I LOVE this necklace sooo much...I'm always drawn to fun pretty jewelry!!

    Natasha ~ Required2BeInspired

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  21. The Cat HagAugust 4, 2011 at 7:35 PM

    Hey Sweetie,

    You look amazing in this outfit!

    I am sorry to hear about the negativity, but dun let that get to you. It's always easy for others to misconstrue the things you say, but as long as your conscience is clear, why bother? ♥




    xoxo,


    Addie


    The Cat
    Hag


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  22. PreityAugust 4, 2011 at 9:59 PM

    u look amazing.simple and chic!! love ur accessories:)

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  23. CeeAugust 5, 2011 at 12:10 AM

    I'm so sorry to hear that negativity has been coming your way via the blog. This is your personal space and you should be allowed to express yourself in whatever way you choose, without leaving yourself open to criticism from strangers. Just saying. It's lovely to see you living post-competition life, and I just have to say, that necklace is stunning!
    xox,
    Cee

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  24. irisAugust 5, 2011 at 9:30 AM

    'Love that necklace! It's beautiful.

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  25. LauraAugust 5, 2011 at 5:00 PM

    beautiful outfit! I love your shoes!

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  26. A Fine BalanceAugust 5, 2011 at 11:45 PM

    thank you hun!

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  27. A Fine BalanceAugust 5, 2011 at 11:45 PM

    you are right! im just letting it go : ) 

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  28. A Fine BalanceAugust 5, 2011 at 11:46 PM

    lol I know...been there done that...must leave the wallet at home when window shopping or indulging in fake retail therapy....though Ive never left the wallet home just yet haha

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  29. ShasieAugust 7, 2011 at 7:44 PM

    Wow, some people really have no life. It's your blog, you can do whatever you want with it, and if people don't like them, they can keep it moving. But anyway this look is amazing on you. Thanks for zooming in on all the accessories! I love them!


    Shasie of Live
    Life in Style
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    In Time Vintage Giveaway

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  30. A Fine BalanceAugust 10, 2011 at 9:01 AM

    Thank you : )

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  31. A Fine BalanceAugust 10, 2011 at 9:02 AM

    It's one of my favourite buys. the Necklace was not too expensive and I get good use out of it!

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  32. LieslAugust 10, 2011 at 3:52 PM

    You look so pretty...love that outfit, and what a fun necklace!  Although I am new to your blog you expressed yourself so well above!

    Liesl :)

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  33. TwentiesGirlAugust 12, 2011 at 8:20 AM

    I'm so sorry you've got some negative feedback though I can't imagine why! Everything that has been written by you has been so honest and true and very enlightening! don't let anyone or anything bring you down! You're doing an amazing job with the blog and you're my inspiration! XOXO 

    PS: outfit = amazing! i love that top and necklace combo! would not have thought of it myself. i should take some tips from you ;) 

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Thank you so much for your Comments! I love hearing what you have to say. It gives me inspiration and motivation to continue being here : ) XOXO - N

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