Many of us forget that dressign for our body types can actually make us feel good, especially when times are tough. The following is a guest post from Jackie Clark who is
research assistant the Mesothelioma CancerAlliance. Jackie has a bachelors degree in English and a
minor in fitness and nutrition.
When
you’ve been diagnosed with cancer,
it completely changes your outlook on life. Patients that suffer from various
terminal diseases often focus on the statistical survival
rates and how much time they have left, instead of focusing on themselves
and what they can do to make their time left memorable.
Taking the time to care for yourself can help you get through the hard times. While working may not necessarily be an option, keeping yourself groomed and dressing nicely can truly change the way you feel about things.
Clothes can be more empowering than people give them credit for. Feeling good about yourself on the outside can help you heal the hurt, confusion and pain on the inside. Empowering yourself through how you dress does not mean you have to overdo it. Personally I have found that offering advise and taking my close loved ones diagnosed with cancer to their appointments and then the mall really enhances their overall spirit. Seeing the smile on my aunt’s face as she walked out of her first chemotherapy session in her new blouse was priceless.
Taking the time to care for yourself can help you get through the hard times. While working may not necessarily be an option, keeping yourself groomed and dressing nicely can truly change the way you feel about things.
Clothes can be more empowering than people give them credit for. Feeling good about yourself on the outside can help you heal the hurt, confusion and pain on the inside. Empowering yourself through how you dress does not mean you have to overdo it. Personally I have found that offering advise and taking my close loved ones diagnosed with cancer to their appointments and then the mall really enhances their overall spirit. Seeing the smile on my aunt’s face as she walked out of her first chemotherapy session in her new blouse was priceless.
Instead
of wearing go-to comfort clothes, try something new such as a trendy sweater or
fashionable blouse. Another option would be to take a simple back shirt for
example and pair it with a warm patterned scarf. It takes what would normally
be a simple outfit and makes it fun and trendy.
Another
tip I would like to emphasize is accessorize, accessorize, accessorize. Adding
a chunky bracelet or an eye-stealing ring can turn any outfit into a
show-stopping piece. Other accessories include shoes and purses. Boots of all
types, cowboy, leather and Uggs are
very in and seem to the leading trend now and for many years down the road. Any
boot flat or heeled can turn skinny jeans into a cute outfit and pair that with
an oversize bag and you cannot help but feel beautiful with our without a
cancer diagnosis.
Getting a cancer diagnosis is life altering and never easy. It’s painful in a
way that most people do not understand. However, just because you get that
diagnosis does not mean you should ever give up on yourself. You are still you,
diagnosis or not. Dress like you are cancer free and you will be!
Read more posts by Jackie here: http://www.mesothelioma.com/blog/authors/jackie/
I can't imagine what someone must go through in a difficult time like this, but I do agree with trying as much as possible to keep your spirits and confidence up. There is a program called "Look Good, Feel Better" and it's the same concept but focuses on the beauty aspect.
ReplyDeleteYou are so right. While it's all well and good to say that it's only what's on the inside that counts, I'm sure you can vouch as a personal trainer that the way we feel about the way we look on the outside has a huge impact on how we feel on the inside. Great post!
ReplyDeleteShe sounds like such a lovely person. I know that when I was diagnosed with liver disease, I felt like dressing up then more than ever. Just because you have a disease or a chronic condition, there is no reason to wallow in despair. Dress up, and continue to live your life!
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It's absolutely true. When you're sick (with anything, really) you just feel like being in bed and being unattractive, but dressing yourself up can really be a mood changer.
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ReplyDeleteThose who face and fight cancer are so brave.
This post was inspiring. I couldn't even imagine caring about what I looked like anymore if I was diagnosed with Cancer.
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