Year or Fear: Overcoming Loss



First off, I would like to apoligse to all my readers and other bloggers out there. I know I have been MIA for the last month. I am not sure exactly how to begin, but I experienced the loss of a very near and dear family member. Initially we thought we only had hours, but thankfully, we were given weeks. Every spare moment I had, I was at the hospital by the best person I have ever known – my grandfather. I was able to spend a lot of time sitting with him, telling him I loved him, and I was able to share in the process of the “end of life” with other family members. 
 

My Grandfather passed away of February 2nd, 2013, surrounded by his family. As you all know I am taking part in a personal challenge. In January, I strived to reduce my belongings by 25% which I would say; I have been successfully able to do. But the month of February is an even more difficult challenge; learning to cope with the loss of a loved one. Though we were given the opportunity to say goodbye, the loss is still trying for all of us. The month of February will be dedicated to remembering my grandfather, reminiscing about the wonderful presence he had in all our lives and of course learning how to pick up the pieces and move forward.

 
To all of you out there, take time to be with your loved ones. Call them, write them, visit them because in the end it will never seem like enough time. 
In Loving Memory...
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28 comments :

  1. Emmett KatherineFebruary 11, 2013 at 11:26 AM

    Nini, i'm so sorry for your loss. I was wondering how things were going because you had been away for awhile, which is very unlike you. this post is a good reminder that time is precious and even though we all get super busy with life but time with family & friends is what matter. my heart goes out to you & your fam. if you need anything just give me a shout.


    K

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  2. Islandia PerryFebruary 11, 2013 at 12:52 PM

    sending you warm thoughts. I know exactly how this feels. It never really leaves you but it does get easier. Regards to you and your family.

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  3. dawnro1101February 11, 2013 at 1:11 PM

    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts.

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  4. AmandaFebruary 11, 2013 at 1:46 PM

    so sorry for your loss.
    xx
    Amanda

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  5. TanviFebruary 11, 2013 at 2:56 PM

    Sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace!

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  6. JessicaFebruary 11, 2013 at 8:12 PM

    I am so sincerely sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.

    Tracy @ Sunny Days and Starry Nights

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  7. Twenty York StreetFebruary 11, 2013 at 9:36 PM

    I am so very sorry for your loss my dear. It is never, ever easy to say good bye to our love ones! We also lost our grand mother just before Christmas, that was and still is a very difficult time.

    Take the time to cherish him, the memories and his legacy. Much love to you and your family.

    oxo,



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  8. Tinfoil TiarasFebruary 11, 2013 at 10:09 PM

    I am truly sorry to hear about the passing of your grandfather N, how nice that you were able to spend time with him and create new memories and reminisce about good times. We are here for you xo

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  9. Erika SoroccoFebruary 12, 2013 at 8:15 AM

    What a beautiful tribute to your Grandfather. I'm so sorry for your loss. :(

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  10. Petite AdventuresFebruary 13, 2013 at 11:47 AM

    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts.

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  11. ElaineFebruary 13, 2013 at 5:24 PM

    So sorry to hear of your loss, Nini! You are wise to take time to remember and to grieve.

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  12. BreeFebruary 14, 2013 at 1:10 AM

    Wow. I am so so so sorry for your loss. This is such a beautifully written tribute to your grandfather, it shows just how truly loved he was by you and your family. I just feel so immensely sorry for you. :(

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  13. LaurenFebruary 14, 2013 at 2:22 PM

    I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your grandfather. Wishing you strength while you go through this difficult time. Sending hugs your way.

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  14. CeeFebruary 15, 2013 at 6:03 AM

    I'm so very sorry to hear this news, Nini. Thinking of you and your family as you cope with the loss of someone who meant so much to all of you. Hugs.
    xox,
    Cee

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  15. LadyofashionFebruary 16, 2013 at 9:59 AM

    Loss is never easy, it takes time to get through and move on ... but it is possible. I agree with you about visiting and calling loved ones, one of my goals every year to visit my parents as often as I get a chance to, which is not usually very often. Wishing you peace in this time dear. xx

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  16. asecondglanceblogFebruary 16, 2013 at 10:51 AM

    :( What a beautiful tribute post to your dear Papa. I'm so sorry for your loss and am thinking of you Nini xx

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  17. DonloreeFebruary 17, 2013 at 3:16 PM

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Learning to grieve and hurt is very painful. I am thinking and praying for you!

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  18. Shannon Heart'sFebruary 17, 2013 at 8:10 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. )))HUGS(((

    www.shannonheartsblog.com

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  19. Sooae LeeFebruary 17, 2013 at 10:33 PM

    i'm so so sorry for your loss! =( xO!

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  20. barefoot duchess blogFebruary 18, 2013 at 10:12 AM

    So sad... My thoughts are with you, dear...

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  21. Lilli C.February 18, 2013 at 10:59 AM

    oh so sorry for your loss! Send you hugs and kisses!

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  22. StephanieFebruary 18, 2013 at 7:33 PM

    wow just found your blog today - so sorry for your loss, he seemed like a great man!

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  23. vogue_or_bustFebruary 18, 2013 at 8:33 PM

    I'm so sorry about your grandpa passing - he sounded like a wonderful man.

    Alexandra xo

    tovogueorbust.com

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  24. LaurenFebruary 19, 2013 at 9:19 PM

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. He seemed like a lovely man. Believe me, I know what its like, and it does get easier. My grandparents passed away 3 months apart in 2011 and it was a difficult time as I was close to both of them. Just be glad he lived a long and happy live and be thankful for all the memories he created. I still think about mine a lot, but its more of in a happiness way than in a sadness way. It really is true when they say time heals all things. xo

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  25. MariaFebruary 20, 2013 at 7:58 PM

    extremely sorry for your loss. he sounds like a beautiful human being. I am thinking about you during this time :(

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  26. Amy B.February 25, 2013 at 8:21 PM

    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.

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  27. KatieFebruary 26, 2013 at 10:04 AM

    I'm so sorry for your lose. I just lost my grandpa a few weeks ago. Hoping that you feel extra comfort from those around you! forlaurenandlauren.blogspot.com

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  28. Marie a la ModeFebruary 27, 2013 at 5:45 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I am very glad you were able to spend time with him during his last days. xo

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